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Sarah this is such a nice commemorative piece for your sweet Abby๐Ÿ’. As a mom of dogs I am just fearing the dayโ€ฆ I love that you gave her a cheese party โ€” it brings new meaning to โ€œcomfort foodโ€๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’ซโœจ๐ŸŒˆ

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Thank you Bonnie! Abby was such an epicure ~ she knew which cheeses were worth her time: Buffalo mozzarella, yes please. A cellophane wrapped slice of orange American? Not so much ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Oohh thatโ€™s funnyโ€”a girl of gรผd taste! Meanwhile the sound of cellophane unwrapping brings my boi in from the backyard ๐Ÿ˜‚

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With heavy heart and tender words, you captured the ache of loss, and the startling realization of gain in lives well-lived. When my beloved golden โ€˜s time on earth was near, we celebrated with Reeseโ€™s peanut butter cups. PB his favorite, and he could experience chocolate at long last.

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Thank you Amie ~ itโ€™s funny (or maybe not so much) my other Newfie can consume chocolate ๐Ÿซ like no oneโ€™s businessโ€ฆunless itโ€™s a full 2+ lb bag of Nestle semi sweet chipsโ€ฆwhile it didnโ€™t kill her, it almost did my carpet ๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ

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Sarah, Iโ€™m so sorry for your loss of your dear Abby. I love your tribute to her and I have been there with our first Westie, who lived to be 16 &1/2, so I could certainly relate. I believe that our first Westie saved my life, in so many ways. It is so hard to say goodbyeโ€ฆ.sending you a warm hug.

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Thanks Kathy ~ these babies certainly care for us in extraordinary ways.

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Your tribute to Abby was lovely. The goodbye to her, I know, is one of the toughest. Iโ€™m holding both of you in my heart!โค๏ธ

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Thanks MJ ~ I know you know how our pets hold our hearts. A friend sent this to me today and it is (also) so true:

โ€œAnd it is exceedingly short, his galloping life. Dogs die so soon. I have my stories of that grief, no doubt many of you do also. It is almost a failure of will, a failure of love, to let them grow oldโ€”or so it feels. We would do anything to keep them with us, and to keep them young. The one gift we cannot give.โ€

โ€• Mary Oliver, Dog Songs

for the love of dogs, indeed

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Oh Sarah, thank you for writing this as hard as it may have been. Sweet Abby . Iโ€™m so saddened by your loss of her. So lovely how u spent ur last days w her. Cheese!

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thank you Muffy ~ she really was the best! I told Olive she needs to hold it together for at least six months...fingers crossed ~ xo

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So sorry for your loss, Sarah.

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thank you ~ never easy, yet worth every moment

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